The Untapped Marketing Technique: Your Personality

Sat, Jul 4, 2009

Marketing

The Untapped Marketing Technique: Your Personality

As a freelancer, one of our main priorities is to please the client. A happy client will come back to you, refer you to others and most importantly feel good with your work. Many times it is not the work which is displeasing to the client, rather the attitude of the freelancer which will cause the client never to return or recommend.

By changing your attitude in dealing with your client, and generally with all people, you will get significantly more business by simple word of mouth. For example, let’s say you need your car fixed. Will you go to your local directory or ask a member of your family or a friend if they know a reliable mechanic? Personally, I will always opt for the latter. That is why keeping good relationships with people can aid your marketing in the long run, usually more than a marketing campaign.

Show Interest in People

Imagine that you are a teenager again (yay!) and you chit-chat with your driving instructor. During one lesson you mention to him that you are a great ‘Lord of the Rings’ fan. As you leave your next lesson he hands you a little present, you unwrap it to find that it is a Lord of the Rings DVD!

This DVD could have cost him less than £10. Your driving lessons cost at least £20. But what are the chances that after he genuinely listened and genuinely showed an interest that you will leave him for another instructor? Zero!

In fact, when you recommend a driving instructor to your ten friends wanting an instructor, who do you recommend?

Use the same concept in freelancing. If you have just finished a project for your client, where the client gave you a healthy paycheck, then you may want to just buy them a small present. But, it does not have to be material.

If you follow your clients on Facebook, then that’s a brilliant way for you to get some casual conversation in with your clients and build up a strong link there so that you may take advantage of repeat work. Even if you don’t get any leads out of them, you will, in the end, have increased the scope of your network of people, and still have the potential to bring in more clients.

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If you are to meet your client face-to-face, as soon as you see them – give them a smile!

I’ve heard that 80% of communication is non-verbal. By smiling you are sending them a non-verbal message saying “I’m happy to see you”. You’d be surprised at the psychological effects this has on the human mind.

A Chinese proverb has words to the affect of “A man without a smiley face should not open a shop”

Your general etiquette should be one of politeness and sincerity. Be careful not to come across as arrogant and uptight, as I have come across many freelancers who do this, and it is a real ‘turn-off’ for the potential client.

Take Notes

When someone mentions something important, make notes. You will definitely forget. A person may say “My son Adam the other day…”. Make a note somewhere that his son’s name is Adam. Next time you see him ask “How’s Adam?”. People love their kids and this person will be shocked at you remembering. Who do you think they will recommend next time he hears someone needs a service you offer?

Listen More than Talk

isp_WhisperEar.img_assist_customPeople have an issue. They love to talk and hate to listen. Very simply, if you shut up and listen, the person you are listening to will become very happy with you. Trust me, it works.

Make Connections

Of the people you know, if person A becomes in need of person B, put them in touch, they will appreciate it and see you as a solution to a problem of theirs. In future they will associate you as a problem solver, and will turn to you when they require services you offer (a problem solved).

Talk in Terms of Peoples Interests

Make a real interest in other people. I hate soccer (what we call football in England), I detest the sport and can not stand it. However, sometimes I’ve been in a situation where the person I am speaking to genuinely loves football. Lets create a scenario where you are in my shoes (in terms of hating football) and speaking to a client on MSN Messenger.

Out of the blue he says, “Did you watch the match last night?”

Do not reply “I hate football” rather, say “Unfortunately, I missed the game”

This person will now tell you how the game was, in fact, he may ask you which team you support. Here’s a piece of advice, just do what I do and say ‘Manchester United’. He may now speak about Manchester United, so Google them! Ask him who he supports and Google them! Then talk more about them.

“What’s the advantage oh wise Golem?”

The advantage is that your client now associates that good feeling of his love for football with you and therefore likes you. By liking you, when someone he knows needs a service you can offer, there is a higher chance he will refer you.

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This does not mean doing the ‘Indian Telemarketer’ thing of constantly saying “Sir” at the end of every sentence.

Never do that!

“Talk to people about themselves and they will listen for hours” – Benjamin Disreali

Let’s say a client asks you to redesign a website they have selling herbal remedies online. When you say to them “May I just say that you run this business well”, the client will be over the moon, and therefore may refer you to someone else in the future!

Conclusion

None of this is possible without good skills in your field of expertise. The psychology I’ve spoken about will enable you to promote your work, but if your work isn’t up to standard, such techniques will have little effect. The most important part of all about the above mentioned techniques is to do a good honest job, putting all your effort into every project that comes your way. Never waver on that!

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This post was written by:

Shoaib - who has written 38 posts on Freelance Apple.

Shoaib Hussain is an web entrepreneur who was formerly a freelancer. He is the main writer and owner on FreelanceApple.com and aims to enlighten FreelanceApple's audience with his vast experience and deep knowledge. Shoaib Hussain also spends his time giving advice to budding freelancers and helping web businesses.

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17 Responses to “The Untapped Marketing Technique: Your Personality”

  1. Phaoloo Says:

    Thanks for really helpful thoughts

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  2. Marketing Man Says:

    Thank you very much, I was looking for this!

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  3. Dollar Buddies Ragu Says:

    Make connections…this phrase almost become the mantra of today’s Web 2.0 world…

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  4. Sideral Says:

    Great advice, thank you. I’m not totally with you in the football example. If you hate football, the, politely change the subject, it is better than trying to sound interested in something that doesn’t interest you, because many clients are not blind, and they recognize genuine interest. I would rather recommend to try to find a common interest with the client. If you are making the client a website, changes are good that you will learn a lot about this person, so you can use this to start a conversation!

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  5. seo expert london Says:

    What a great website, refreshing to read and one of the best ive been in a while. The web needs more sites like this.

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  6. The Golem Says:

    Sideral – I agree with you, I suppose my point is a little weak there. I once read in President Abraham Lincoln’s biography that he had a key guest for dinner the next day who was a great fan of a certain thing (my awesome memory powers are diminishing! so…where was I…hmmm) and so President Lincoln researched everything about that sport, the night before.

    When his guest came in the morning he spoke about that sport with him and therefore won over his heart.

    Nonetheless, I do agree with you. Hey, subscribe to the RSS feed to keep in touch!

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  7. Shoaib Says:

    A real interesting post, i totally loved it. I see how you combined techniques from diff sources like NLP. Thanks again!

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  8. tom Says:

    hello

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  9. The Golem Says:

    Hi…

    …how are you?

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  10. Gordon Mullan Says:

    I agree with the majority of this, but definitely agree with Sideral that faking interest in something you don’t actually like is really going to hurt you when the other person figures that out.

    Like you, I don’t like football, and I usually say so, along with something like “Motorsport is more my thing”.

    Good marketing is all about trust and authenticity. Whilst I agree that knowing a little about everything to be able to have a conversation is definitely useful, pretending to be a fan of something or someone when you’re not is asking for trouble.

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  11. The Golem Says:

    Gordon,

    Wholly agree with you. It was a weak point, I realise, and the approach you have discussed is better.

    Thanks for your comment, much appreciated. Please subscribe to the RSS so we can stay in touch.

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  12. jack parler Says:

    Interesting article. Were did you got all the information from… :)

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  13. The Golem Says:

    @jack. Years of experience ;)

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